Lap Dance Pointers

I got this from Gwen in Love, a blog that I follow. While I actually didn't agree with all the advice she gave at the start of her post, I did like the moves that she recommended using. I was happy to see some moves that I teach at my parties, and private lessons.
She recommended a lot of talking, (tell him this, tell him that)  In my opinion it ruins the mood and starts off your romantic endeavor with a bunch of Do's and Don'ts, sort of ruins the mood if you ask me by giving him an ear full of instructions before you begin.

I recommend a chair with arms, (you can use it as leverage, or to keep your feet and legs in close for various moves) a big sofa, or comfy arm chair.  Something with lots of room!

I recommend no words, or one word ques. 
If he touches you, put his hands to his side with determination and  gentle force and whisper in his ear, "no touching"
If you need him to move, or anything from him, give one word responses again, or just make it happen without words.  You shouldn't need him to move at all in such a way that you would need to talk to him about it, if you find you are needing him to move you may have the wrong chair, or be doing moves that aren't lap dance friendly.  Keep It Simple!!

While moving around a lot, walking around, crawling and being all over him are good things to do, I don't recommend being all over the place constantly.  The "keep him guessing" comes from how you choose to remove your clothing.

PRACTICE, PRACTICE before hand.  Have a routine, start with a floor routine, then move to the lap dance and finish away from him with more floor work.

I do agree, eye contact is key!!  Also, YOU need to enjoy it, that will be the big seller.  If you need to close your eyes at times to get into the music and your moves do it.  It is a very sensual look that will really appeal to him.

To honor the source I got these moves from I won't alter her writing, but there are a bunch of extra things I would love to add.  If you are wanting a private lesson, or help getting started on a lap dance for your Honey let me know.  I can customize a routine for you to your song of choice, or just give you a few pointers for moves that work with your home, and clothing you are wanting to use.

Let me just say, I do not agree with standing on your Hubby's thigh!!  Ouch!  always place your foot beside his legs

"Here are some moves to get you going:Walk around drag: Walk around behind him and lightly drag your hand up his arm, around his neck, and back down his other arm.

Kiss Miss: Psych your guy out so he thinks you are going to kiss him. Kneel with your right knee between his legs and place your right arm around his neck. Place your left knee on his right thigh. Most of your weight will be on the chair. Use his neck for leverage and lean back and slowly come in, scooping forward as if to kiss him but glide right past his ear. Kiss or bite his ear or whisper something if you want to.

Leg show: place a foot between his knees. Slowly caress your leg with both hands starting up at the top of your thigh going all the way down to your foot.

Grind: Sit either with your back to him or your front to him. Maintain eye contact if your front is to him. Grind backwards and forwards or in circles while you’re sitting on his lap.

Stand up: Place right foot between his legs and stand up, placing your left foot on his right thigh. With your left hand jerk his head down, gyrate your hips, push his head back and step down.

The Melt: Sit with your weight on him and your cheeks touching. Slowly slide down his body, like you are melting to the floor. Keep your right foot on the ground and fold your left leg so you are kneeling on it. Then when you get to the ground you will be able to crawl away easier
Chest Press: Crawl up to him and place a hand on each thigh. Slowly press and drag your chest up his knees and lower thighs.

Zipper Shock: reach down and grab his jeans zipper between your teeth. Jerk your head back several times and try to lower his zipper some."
http://gweninlove.blogspot.com/2012/07/how-to-do-sexy-lap-dance.html