I love this article I found on helpful hints for strip tease on Masteryourman.com. I'll quote some from the article, but most of this is my own feedback, inspired from the article.
Please keep coming back, I will be posting strip moves & technique very soon.
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Start off Slow: The art of strip tease might not feel natural in the beginning. Start slow; I had gotten myself up to quite a little routine for the Hubs, I would do a routine on the Pole, transition to a little strip tease, move into a lap dance, and remove the rest of my clothing at the end, all with a bunch of flare and sass! However, after having a baby I took a break for awhile when I got back to that place where I wanted to entertain my Hubby again I decided to practice first. Always a good idea! Boy am I glad I did, I stunk! I was rusty as all get out. I still wanted to give the gift of dance to my Hubby but I cut back and kept it simple, I nixed the pole entirely, kept my floor show short and sweet, and put my focus on the lap dance. I guess you could say it was a happy ending. ;)
Lighten Up: Be willing to laugh at your self. I've been teaching, and performing for my Hubby for years. Let me just say things happen that weren't planned. I fell off my coffee table, pulled my ham string trying a move I hadn't practiced before hand, and totally missed the pole doing a handstand onto the pole. Let me just say, my Hubby did not care in the slightest!!! I was taking my clothes off and doing all this FOR HIM, he was in Heaven and would not mess it up by laughing at me. It's essential, you need to relax and have confidence and the reality check that unplanned booboos will happen. Play it off, keep moving, take that as an opportunity to flash your boobs, and I promise that mistake you just made is forgotten!!
"Fake It Until You Make It: Accept from the beginning of your strip tease class that your body, moves, and state of mind are not the same as the instructors or anyone else in your strip tease class. Some people have a natural rhythm and will learn the strip tease moves very quickly while other struggle to simply hold on to the pole. Don’t look around and compare yourself to others. Appreciate yourself for making the attempt to learn strip tease.
Practice on the Sly: The best way to build self-confidence about your strip tease moves is to practice in private. Put on some sexy music and practice your strip tease moves in the mirror. When you are able to see how your body moves, you will find ways to correct your strip tease and be surprised at how sexy you look when moving to the beat. This will also give you confidence when you try it in front of a man." I would like to add, invite an honest friend over and practice together. Some of the best moves came from my friend and I practicing together. We would just put the music on and GO! We were very positive, and careful with our critics. Instead of saying, "That move makes your butt look huge!" We may have said something like, "that is good, try it again and this time try it again from this angle", or, "try placing your this way
"Own It: Adjust the moves that you learned in your strip tease class to enhance and communicate the way you are feeling to your partner. Give yourself credit and do the moves that feel right for you." If you start to feel nervous Close Your Eyes. This is the best way to really get into your body, and feel the music. Tune out the rest of the world. If he sees you enjoying your self that translates into confidence and self esteem. Most men would agree, it's pretty hot to see a woman confident in herself.
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